Thursday, February 18, 2010
Have you ever had one of those days, you know the kind, you just don't agree with anyone, you're finding yourself annoyed with others for no reason.

On days like these you find yourself minding your own business, not looking for advice, not offering any, yet still, someone finds a way to poke their head in.

Now, sure this sounds extremely cruel, but honestly people just need to learn something, if you are not willing to listen, to actually LISTEN to what the person is saying, then do not poke your head into my business and pretend to care...

You don't have a quota to make, you don't have to help X amount of people today to make it to Heaven. If you take 10 minutes to yourself you're NOT going to go to hell.
If you're going to offer someone advice make sure it's solicited advice. If you offer advice and you see that the person does not want it, don't get all bent out of shape. Sometimes it's a good thing for people to try and either succeed or fail on their own.

Did you know it's OKAY to fail at something. Failing at something, does not make you shit. Failing at something means you TRIED. So you fail, guess what, try again. If you need help, get off your high horse and ASK for it. I'd rather ask for help and appear "weak" then to not ask for help and appear "stupid".
You're NOT superhuman, we learn by others, we learn by example.

If someone asks you for help, don't act all pompous and superior just help and shut up. You're not better than me, and I'm not better than you. You know something I don't or perhaps you offer strength. I'm forever grateful for your help, but don't rub my nose in it.


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