Saturday, February 27, 2010
Ok, I'm angered by a comment I just heard. I do not believe I just heard it, but I did!


Spanking is REQUIRED, for a parent to establish DOMINANCE over their children. Parents who do not spank will just be doormats for their children.
Spanking has been around for generations, and that's why I spank!
I am livid. I have heard people advocate spanking, but as a requirement and to gain dominance over your own children?
I could just scream and cry at the same time. At what point in our lives did we forget that children are human beings? If a husband hits a wife, it's abuse... If a wife hits her husband... it's abuse, (or assault depending on what part of the country you are from...) It is illegal for adults to physically assault one another etc.

SO WHEN DID IT BECOME OK TO TREAT KIDS LIKE TRASH AND HIT THEM. WHEN DID IT BECOME OK TO VIOLATE CHILDREN'S INNOCENSE TO THE POINT WHERE WE LOST CONTROL SO BADLY WE HAD TO HIT THEM TO GAIN DOMINANCE?

I have never, in all my life been so mad!

Nothing justifies someone wanting dominance over a child... What does "Family" even mean anymore?
 I guess, kids are just reduced to vile animal like creatures now, and parents (some parents) feel the need to dominate them because they are to worthless to make it anywhere else?

Children are "stupid", "mindless" creatures that you have to forge into the path of to righteousness. Bloody hell, I'm tired of controlling parents that "KNOW" the only way to make a kid listen is to hit 'em a few times.
Kids make mistakes! YOU did, that's how we learn.

A little communication goes a LONG way people! How about words, not hitting!
Give kids some credit! I doubt there's that many stupid kids in the world, it's more like stupid parents that feel this need to control to the point of abuse!


If you want "perfect" kids, don't have any!

If you're looking for something to control, buy a Tamogatchi pet! Don't get a real pet, they don't deserve your crap either!

If you want to beat on something to make yourself feel superior... well, you know what you can do with that, now don't you!

4 comments:

Tiny Footprints said...

I am not looking to gain or maintain dominance over my children to begin with. Why would I? Because they are less what, less human than I? I didn't even finish reading your rant ( sorry) because I needed to blow off some steam for myself. I will never never never understand parents who by nature of being bigger than a child believe that they are somehow better than said child. I look at my little ones and I see in both of them souls that are much closer to remembering that spirit that I am. I feel privileged to be their mommy. I am awed by their innocence and I cannot imagine what would make someone believe that spanking is REQUIRED to raise them correctly. BAH!

Sherwood V Dunlop said...

...For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams. You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you. For life does not go backward nor tarries with yesterday. You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.
-Kahlil Gibran (on children)

stop generational debt.

Woman Uncensored said...

I just read such an awful story (on drmomma.org) about parents using "biblical" parenting advice as an excuse to beat their kids. One died, the other is in critical condition. People scare me.

Alexa said...

Don't apoligize, you should be LIVID. We all should be. Innocent children are being abused and we need to get angry enough to do something about it. Spanking needs to be made illegal and parents need to be REQUIRED to learn how to communicate with them properly and respectfully without any violence or threats!

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